Wednesday, 24 August 2011

How Flowers Can Resolve Communication Problems

By Barbara Meyer


Communication is extremely important in a relationship. Inability to communicate well with the one you love can cause countless problems. For the majority of guys, expressing how they feel is difficult. For almost all females, it is the opposite. This difference is usually the reason why couples have communication issues.

Gender is not the only factor that causes communication problems. There's also the home environment a person grew up in. Some people grew up in homes where communication is not encouraged. As a result, the person grows up less expressive about what he feels.

Is your difficulty communicating what you feel hurting your relationship already? Then, it is about time you rise above it. Find ways to express what you feel. You can make letters or better yet, send her flowers.

Flowers are among the best things you could use to say and even emphasize what you feel. These lovely blooms may be given during various occasions. They can likewise be used to say whatever you feel, whether it is "I'm really sorry" or "I miss you." Indeed, flowers speak the language of love and others more.

For these lovely blooms to successfully make the one you love feel what you like them to, do not just select any type of flower. If possible, give her the type she loves. If white roses are her favorite, then by all means go buy this variety. After all, currently, you won't have difficulties finding her favorite type as flower shops are everywhere. In fact, some florists have web-based shops which make it faster for you to search for her preferred blooms and order them.

If you don't have an idea what her favorite flower is or if she does not have any, then pick a variety or kind which is known to symbolize what you want to say. Red roses or dark red carnations symbolize endless romantic love. This is why these kinds, particularly red roses, are the commonly given variety. Daisy is a variety which symbolizes faithfulness while hyacinth stands for sorry.

Remember, some things are just difficult to express. If you don't have the courage to face your fears and say it in words, you can try saying it with flowers.




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